I find it rather immoral that one would use the suffering of another to make them feel better about their lives just because both suffer in more-or-less the same way, you know, that 'you-are-not-alone-in-this-World' mentality that some adopt. After going through it ourselves, shouldn't we be hoping that others do not experience the same intense physical, mental and emotional pain that we are put through, instead of feeling better about ourselves knowing that we are not the only ones who suffer that way?
There's always time to realize and even more to change. Working on it. Haha :)